My friends are constantly surprised by the frequent change of girlfriends:
Wait, you were with someone else yesterday, with such a fair girl. Where did she go?
Because of this, there were even rumors that I was an unreliable and infantile person who was unsuitable for serious relationships and family life.
It’s funny to hear this, but the reason is different. I’m just not interested in serious relationships with modern women. I welcome the fleeting communication stretched over several meetings. No more.
You can ask:
This, of course, is great, but what does it matter to us?
I just share my worldview, which, in my humble opinion, coincides with the opinion of many men. Someone from my words can think about and avoid a failed relationship in which he will leave a lot of energy, money and nerves.
- Loss of activity. Everything is fine in the beginning. A woman is interested in dialogue and meetings, so communication develops by itself, as if floating with the flow.
But, after some time, interest disappears. Due to the fact that every woman has a fan or another option for communication, she turns her attention to other men. She understands that you are exactly at her side. Have you already spent money on gifts, attention and the meaning of being active, if you are going to run after her anyway?
In my opinion, playing with one goal is too boring and gray.
- Endless “must” and “must”. As a rule, at the beginning of communication, you don’t really owe a woman anything. The maximum is to take her to a restaurant and give flowers. However, a little later, the list of requirements grows exponentially.
Some particularly arrogant “princesses” declare almost in an ultimatum:
Either you give a gift, or we part.
They understand that the man is in a stalemate. It’s a pity to abandon the woman you were seeking, in whom you invested, so abruptly. Unfortunately, if you bend once, the requests will not only disappear, but there will be even more of them.
- Comparisons with other men. In the internet age, it’s easy to follow someone else’s life. Not the smartest girls who boast of the benefits earned on their appearance add fuel to the fire.
Oh, my beloved gave me a BMW for my birthday, I love him!
As the rain spread, courses in which women are taught to “respect” themselves - not to date men who earn less than a hundred thousand. Men, like a product on the market, are compared with each other, and the comparison will always not be in your favor. Earning 100? Great, but Greg earns 200.
I believe that a woman should inspire, not whip up negativity. If she does this on an ongoing basis, then what is she to me at all?
- Irritation. Yes, speaking of the negative. It just so happens that all people are different. And if in melodramas and fairy tales there are two halves that perfectly match each other, then in reality everything is different.
A woman can do something that a man does not like, and vice versa. The challenge is to try to smooth out the rough edges by finding a compromise. It is important to do this adequately, without swearing, scandals and other things.
Many modern women are unfamiliar with the concept of patience. Why would I put up with a man I don’t like when I can snap a finger and meet someone else? But while the admirer is only on the horizon, the woman non-stop nagging the man for every little thing.
Once again, relationships should be joyful. If it is not there, then the meaning of the relationship is zero.
- Attempts to fix something. Especially stubborn ladies strive to change something in you.
For example, she doesn’t like your hair. Go change it! Or she is annoyed by the way you dress. Now you dress like I said!
What does a weak man do? He agrees. Everything. His identity has been erased. He became a limp doll in the hands of a woman. Such a man will not be a leader in a relationship. Such a man will not become the real head of the family. And to be honest, he will not have a family. The woman will have a family.