Modern men are increasingly abandoning marriage, work and study, preferring to live with their parents. Let's talk about just such things.

This trend has become so widespread that women have actively sounded the alarm — there is no one to marry, the men are completely infantile, lazy and pampered.

Women believe that the reason for this lies in laziness and stupidity. But in fact, the opposite is true in men's logical and rational thinking, since modern marriage, family, study and work are more useless than useful for them.

A married man loses the respect of his peers

Just a few generations ago, marriage was something of an initiation rite-an indicator of entering adulthood. Marriage lifted a man up a notch in the social hierarchy, he became the head of a small team and received a small, but still power, and with it responsibility for himself, his wife and offspring. Today, on the contrary, marriage lowers a man down a step in the social hierarchy, he does not receive any power in the family, therefore he cannot bear responsibility, for which fathers of families are exposed as clowns and idiots in popular culture.:

A married man loses in sex

The changing moral norms over the last century have made sex much more accessible. Today, a single man can change partners as often as he pleases, the variety of sexual life depends only on himself and his desire. Upon marriage, a man is forced to abandon polygamy, and his sex life is completely at the mercy of his wife and her moods. And then, not always

A married man risks losing children and money

More and more men are noticing that marriage has ceased to be a lifelong enterprise, many have a friend or buddy who managed to get married and soon divorced. At the same time, the court leaves the children to their mothers during the divorce. And I remind you that the percentage of divorces in Russia is higher than the number of marriages. And most of the divorces are initiated by women. A man is obliged to pay alimony for selected children, which make up a significant part of his income.

A married man loses his living space

Bachelors have the whole house or apartment at their disposal, a man chooses where to eat, sleep and have fun. However, after marriage and the birth of children, under the pretext of caring for his wife and offspring, a man is evicted to the most inconvenient parts of the house — to the garage, basement or attic:

A married man risks his freedom

Today, not only a man can file for divorce, but also a woman, and for reasons beyond the control of a man, as already mentioned in paragraph 3, the courts in the vast majority of cases give children to mothers, and men are required to pay alimony for many years. However, if a man does not have the opportunity to pay them, he can be prosecuted, up to imprisonment.

And finally, single life is better today than ever.

A few generations ago, people married in order to improve their quality of life, but today the life of a bachelor is full of pleasures and entertainment. No wife tells you how to live and what to do. Tourism, sports, video games, the Internet, and promiscuous sex are available to the vast majority of single men, while household appliances have long been doing all the housework, and the need for wives has simply disappeared on its own.

And I think that the reason for such a boycott is not infantilism and laziness, but, on the contrary, a rational and logical view of reality. If society wants to change the situation, it is necessary to make these areas more attractive to men.