— Valentin, why don't we go get some vodka? Lena suggested.

«What do you mean?» Valentine did not understand.

— Literally. Lena explained. — We'll find a dubious cafe, grab some iced vodka, a simple snack, and slowly get drunk. Judging by your face, you don't shy away from such entertainment.

— What an unusual woman you are, Lena! Valentine marveled.

—The usual one, Valentine. Lena shook her head. — I also want to hear about the charming sparkle of my eyes, the dazzling smile, about how I took away your peace forever. But I understand that this is all the average man can say only after three or four shots of strong alcohol.

And I, after three shots of vodka, am already all in Valhalla and mentally fighting with Odin for the right to be the first to taste the sacrificial deer. Therefore, all this romance certainly gets into me, but I don't remember it. This, Valentin, by the way, is the black dualism and the tragedy of the existence of a modern woman.

— Well, you can drink through one, for example. I drink two shots and you drink one. — Valentin gallantly offered a solution.

— The hell I will. Lena said.

I recently had dinner with 2 «girls» and one of them looked at me with undisguised condemnation. I asked her a question- what's the matter? She replied: you can go fishing, change cars, fly anywhere and whenever you want, drink wine and beer, go to cafes and restaurants, you have no problems… it annoys me, a man shouldn't be like that....free and happy only for yourself, a man's job is to make a woman and family happy, it's disgusting to look at you.

The more successful a free man becomes, the more aggressively women react to him. And it's not that you're bad, it's that you're too good.

1. «Uncontrolled freedom»

The first thing that infuriates women is your absolute freedom. You can move to another city, change jobs, or start a new hobby… And all this without regard to the «other half». In my practice, there was a case when a successful bachelor just bought a ticket and flew to Bali for six months. Try to pull this off in a marriage!

2. «Financial independence»

Oh yes, it makes them especially angry! You manage your money as you see fit. No arguments about whether you need a new console or whether it's better to buy a fur coat. Your wallet is your rules.

3. «High self-esteem»

A bachelor who is happy with his life is like a red rag for a bull. Women are used to the idea that a man should feel inferior without a relationship. And then you show up, happy and self-sufficient.

4. «Social challenge»

There is still a stereotype in society that a successful man must be married. And when you break this pattern, it causes aggression. You are like living proof that you can be happy without a stamp in your passport.

5. «Quality of life»

Do you know what else pisses them off? How good you look! In my practice, I constantly see how bachelors at 40+ look better than their married peers. No beer belly, fresh look, fashionable clothes.

6. «No manipulation»

You cannot be manipulated through guilt. «All normal men have been married for a long time»- remember that phrase? It doesn't work on you, and it pisses them off.

7. «Personal growth»

Free time = self-development. While married friends spend the weekend at their mother-in-law's cottage, you learn a new language, invest in investments, or conquer mountain peaks.

8. «Social competition»

You're a walking reminder to their exes that you can live a different life. Every successful bachelor's story is a blow to the stereotype of «after a divorce, life is over.»

9. «Myth Busting»

Last but not least. You are destroying the myth that a man cannot be happy without a woman. And that's probably what pisses them off the most.

P.S. Remember, being a bachelor is not a sentence, it's a privilege. And it's up to you to decide how to use your freedom.

Modern men are increasingly abandoning marriage, work and study, preferring to live with their parents. Let's talk about just such things.

This trend has become so widespread that women have actively sounded the alarm — there is no one to marry, the men are completely infantile, lazy and pampered.

Women believe that the reason for this lies in laziness and stupidity. But in fact, the opposite is true in men's logical and rational thinking, since modern marriage, family, study and work are more useless than useful for them.

A married man loses the respect of his peers

Just a few generations ago, marriage was something of an initiation rite-an indicator of entering adulthood. Marriage lifted a man up a notch in the social hierarchy, he became the head of a small team and received a small, but still power, and with it responsibility for himself, his wife and offspring. Today, on the contrary, marriage lowers a man down a step in the social hierarchy, he does not receive any power in the family, therefore he cannot bear responsibility, for which fathers of families are exposed as clowns and idiots in popular culture.:

A married man loses in sex

The changing moral norms over the last century have made sex much more accessible. Today, a single man can change partners as often as he pleases, the variety of sexual life depends only on himself and his desire. Upon marriage, a man is forced to abandon polygamy, and his sex life is completely at the mercy of his wife and her moods. And then, not always

A married man risks losing children and money

More and more men are noticing that marriage has ceased to be a lifelong enterprise, many have a friend or buddy who managed to get married and soon divorced. At the same time, the court leaves the children to their mothers during the divorce. And I remind you that the percentage of divorces in Russia is higher than the number of marriages. And most of the divorces are initiated by women. A man is obliged to pay alimony for selected children, which make up a significant part of his income.

A married man loses his living space

Bachelors have the whole house or apartment at their disposal, a man chooses where to eat, sleep and have fun. However, after marriage and the birth of children, under the pretext of caring for his wife and offspring, a man is evicted to the most inconvenient parts of the house — to the garage, basement or attic:

A married man risks his freedom

Today, not only a man can file for divorce, but also a woman, and for reasons beyond the control of a man, as already mentioned in paragraph 3, the courts in the vast majority of cases give children to mothers, and men are required to pay alimony for many years. However, if a man does not have the opportunity to pay them, he can be prosecuted, up to imprisonment.

And finally, single life is better today than ever.

A few generations ago, people married in order to improve their quality of life, but today the life of a bachelor is full of pleasures and entertainment. No wife tells you how to live and what to do. Tourism, sports, video games, the Internet, and promiscuous sex are available to the vast majority of single men, while household appliances have long been doing all the housework, and the need for wives has simply disappeared on its own.

And I think that the reason for such a boycott is not infantilism and laziness, but, on the contrary, a rational and logical view of reality. If society wants to change the situation, it is necessary to make these areas more attractive to men.