The more successful a free man becomes, the more aggressively women react to him. And it's not that you're bad, it's that you're too good.

1. «Uncontrolled freedom»

The first thing that infuriates women is your absolute freedom. You can move to another city, change jobs, or start a new hobby… And all this without regard to the «other half». In my practice, there was a case when a successful bachelor just bought a ticket and flew to Bali for six months. Try to pull this off in a marriage!

2. «Financial independence»

Oh yes, it makes them especially angry! You manage your money as you see fit. No arguments about whether you need a new console or whether it's better to buy a fur coat. Your wallet is your rules.

3. «High self-esteem»

A bachelor who is happy with his life is like a red rag for a bull. Women are used to the idea that a man should feel inferior without a relationship. And then you show up, happy and self-sufficient.

4. «Social challenge»

There is still a stereotype in society that a successful man must be married. And when you break this pattern, it causes aggression. You are like living proof that you can be happy without a stamp in your passport.

5. «Quality of life»

Do you know what else pisses them off? How good you look! In my practice, I constantly see how bachelors at 40+ look better than their married peers. No beer belly, fresh look, fashionable clothes.

6. «No manipulation»

You cannot be manipulated through guilt. «All normal men have been married for a long time»- remember that phrase? It doesn't work on you, and it pisses them off.

7. «Personal growth»

Free time = self-development. While married friends spend the weekend at their mother-in-law's cottage, you learn a new language, invest in investments, or conquer mountain peaks.

8. «Social competition»

You're a walking reminder to their exes that you can live a different life. Every successful bachelor's story is a blow to the stereotype of «after a divorce, life is over.»

9. «Myth Busting»

Last but not least. You are destroying the myth that a man cannot be happy without a woman. And that's probably what pisses them off the most.

P.S. Remember, being a bachelor is not a sentence, it's a privilege. And it's up to you to decide how to use your freedom.

First, a little about myself — I’m 45 years old, I got married at 20, I’m still happy, I have two children. I have been working in the registry office for 25 years and would like to share my observations from the outside, or, more precisely, to address modern female representatives.

Although I am a woman myself, what has been happening to them for quite some time now is, to put it mildly, quiet horror. I never supported or condoned such actions and behavior, but on the contrary, I despised them. I've always wondered what's going on in your empty heads, modern ladies?

Yes, yes, empty ones! What have you sunk to? It makes your hair stand up when you look at the divorce statistics.

90% of divorces, and in most cases, are initiated by you yourself, my “dear” ladies.

This figure, for our small provincial town, with its population not exceeding half a million, is very large. However, this nightmare is happening throughout our vast country.

Who is to blame for all this, you ask? Yes, you yourself, no need to point at men!

Look at how you treat men? Yes, as you like — as a consumer product, an ATM, a thing, a bull-producer, but not as a person.

The reasons for divorce seem to be written out as carbon copies — either you don’t have enough money, or your husband is an asshole, lets loose, drinks, etc., you can list them for a long time. Before marriage he was different and everything like that.

I’ll tell you a great secret or secret, as you like, men are the same as they were before marriage, and that’s how they remain in the process of family life. Only five percent of men out of a hundred, no more, who filed for divorce on their own, but only because his wife drank all the blood and ate his brain, found an outlet in the form of a mistress and got carried away.

Don’t make monsters and worthless men out of men, because you yourself are driving them to extremes.

Are you saying that this is not true? You always have little money, few clothes, shorts and other things.

You pint out to man — look at others, why isn't it like that with us?

Let's take out a loan to buy some junk, like an iPhone. You have to take out a mortgage to live happily.

You hang one collar after another on a man’s neck, especially for him, but not for yourself.

You get into problems yourself, and then a man has to sort them all out for you, because you don’t have enough brains to do more than get into some new shit.

Who gave you the right to chase and destroy a man like a racehorse, for the sake of your own whims? So that he works several jobs just to provide for your mercantile desires? When a man loves you and children, appreciate it. One of the tasks of a man is to help his children reach adulthood through paternal education. And you women behave like little, hysterical girls who were not given candy.

You are not able to support children without a man, or support yourself.

You, like bottomless black holes, pull the last out of a man.

If you believe that it is so easy to earn money, then why are you not able to earn as much as you need, your “beloved”, need?

Does a man owe you anything? Can you even hear yourself? You must also invest in your family as equals. If you didn’t know, until relatively recently, property and children, during a divorce, remained with the man.

You have let yourself go so much that sleeping with men who are just acquaintances for you, for a day or a night, has become commonplace. You are ready to lie under anyone just to get money, property, etc.

All this is so vile and disgusting, you have become worse than prostitutes. You judge other women — say she's a slut. Look at yourself first, how many “innocent” men have you had? After a divorce, just like before marriage, you go to great lengths, go around, so to speak, in circles, from hand to hand, men now call these people “Public Transport.”

You always blame men for everything, even for what happens to you, but what have you done to be happy and have strong families? Nothing really, you just whine about how bad everything is.

A woman is, first of all, a keeper of the home, and not a fireman who put out everything.

What have you done for your man, for your family? Did you give birth to a child, nag your husband, listen to all your friends, your mother? These are all your achievements in life, all your merits and awards that you awarded to yourself.

Men work as rescuers, serve in the army, make discoveries, shed blood in hot spots, surgery, cooks in the best restaurants in the world, scientists — all these are men. Women who actually accomplished something or did something worthy can be counted on the fingers of one hand, because for the most part they only leave at the expense of men.

It is because of people like you that it is extremely difficult for a woman, a natural woman who is truly ready to be a faithful and caring wife, a good mother, to find a man.

You have completely discredited the entire female sex — at first you pretend to be good, and a few years later, after you have took everything you wanted from your husband, you turn on the bitch and file for divorce, wave your hand at him from the “leaving train”, and, not only that, hang a whole carriage of long-term financial obligations on him and take away the children. Do you think that after all this, men will trust you?

Perhaps, but only the most outspoken rabble, decent, worthy men will bypass you, because they will see a catch even where there cannot be one. It is easier for them to lead an independent life than to risk their lives, resources, and health.

You need to appreciate and take care of your man. Without men, this world will wallow in vices and rot. Imagine for a moment that all the men disappeared at once and what then? Women won’t last long, everything around them will begin to collapse.

Appreciate your man, take care of him, otherwise you will become a Divorced with a Trailer, this is a stigma for life, do not deceive yourself, with such a status no one will need you. A divorced with a trailer does not sound proud, but low.

What did women learn about men only after starting a relationship?

1. Morning erections. I had no idea this happened every time until I started living with my first boyfriend. I mean, it just happens? For no reason?? Even when I'm not around??? Wild.

2. When they need to go to the store, they go straight to the item they need, grab it, pay, and leave. I need to learn to do that too.

3. The whole thing about the way to a man's heart being through his stomach. It's true.

I met a guy once, and the next morning I made him breakfast. He said no woman had ever cooked for him before, looked genuinely touched, and now we're married.

4. They keep a significant portion of their thoughts to themselves.

5. How rarely they receive compliments.

I told my boyfriend I really liked his shirt, and he didn't even know how to respond. He said he couldn't remember the last time he'd received a compliment, so I started looking for little things to praise him for.

6. How much the appearance of a penis can differ in its relaxed and erect states. And how much it can shrink in size in the cold.

7. Most of them really love to cuddle and have their heads stroked.

8. How strong men actually are. My first boyfriend threw me over his shoulder like a sack of potatoes, even though I'm not a small girl.

9. When they ask to be left alone, they are absolutely serious about it. They don't mean, «Leave me alone for five minutes, and then start comforting me, or overanalyzing the situation, or forcing me to discuss everything.»

I had to learn this the hard way.

10. How much they sometimes itch in their groin.

And their silence doesn't mean they're angry or thinking about someone else; they're simply in their current mood.

11. How little it takes to entertain them.

My boyfriend once spent over an hour throwing rocks into a frozen pond because he enjoyed watching the ice crack. I find it interesting too, but a whole hour...?

12. Don't try talking to a man while he's playing video games if you expect a thoughtful response.

13. They always (or at least often) retain the sense of humor of a little boy. It's quite sweet.

14. They enjoy being «together.»

My friend said she's amazed at how men can turn anything into a fun group activity.

Throwing rocks into a lake? How far can you throw? How many bounces? The biggest splash?

Or digging a hole on the beach. Every man will join in on that fun.

15. My grandmother once told me that the biggest difference between men and boys is the price of their toys. And she was right.

16. They will always find a reason to make a «dad joke,» regardless of the situation.

17. You need to be extremely direct when asking them to do something, and only when you want them to actually do it.

If I need help right now, my job is to communicate that, otherwise everything will wait until he finishes his video game, haha.

18. Absolute devotion to underwear and t-shirts until they're practically glued together from sweat.

19. When I ask, «What are you thinking about?», and he answers, «Nothing,» he really means «nothing.» For a long time I couldn't understand how men could just sit and think about nothing?

Why are men like that:

1. Their ass is never the deciding factor during an interview.

2. Their orgasm is always true. Always!

3. Their last name remains.

4. The garage — is all of them.

5. They never plan a wedding celebration.

6. The car mechanic always tells them the truth.

7. They don't care if someone doesn't notice their new haircut.

8. The same job means more pay.

9. Wrinkles only add to their charisma.

10. They don't have to leave the room to improve their appearance.

11. Wedding dress 2000 USD, tuxedo rental 100 USD

12. People never look at their breasts while talking.

13. New shoes always fit.

14. One mood, always!

15. Phone calls — 30 seconds tops.

16. You only need one bag for a five-day vacation.

17. They open the jars themselves.

18. They get a kiss for every act of caring.

19. The price of underwear is $5 for three packages.

20. If they are 35 years old and lonely, no one notices it.

21. Three pairs of shoes are enough.

22. They don't wear heels.

23. If another guy comes to a party wearing the same clothes, they can become best friends for years to come.

24. They don't need to know the names of more than five colors.

25. They don't have to wonder how to tighten the screws.

26. They have a gift for not noticing rumpled clothes.

27. They have been wearing the same hairstyle for years, and even decades.

28. Their belly usually hides their big hips.

29. One wallet, one pair of shoes, one color of clothing for all seasons.

30. They do manicure with a knife.

31. Shopping for the New Year for 25 family members is done on December 30, in a few minutes.