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During a live broadcast of Formula 1, a cameraman momentarily diverted his attention from filming the presenters and smoothly panned his camera toward a young woman walking past.

By way of justification, he also made a point of highlighting the McLaren team mechanics, who were likewise captivated by her.

1. Every wrong step I take puts my life in jeopardy.

People think that I don't put in any effort or try to earn money. But this is not an easy job. There is no way to sue or report misconduct.

2. Not all sex work involves actual sexual intercourse.

Strippers, content creators, and professional dominatrixes are all considered sex workers, yet we never engage in sex with our clients. So, please keep this in mind—do not make assumptions or propose inappropriate services. It is extremely disrespectful.

3. When I was 19, I worked as a stripper for a few months. I’m 30 now, and I haven't done it since, but I am so glad I did. First of all, it was the most supportive and positive atmosphere of any job I’ve ever held. The DJs, security staff, management, dancers, and waitstaff all supported one another and were always on our side. I’m sure it’s not like this in every club, but that is exactly how it was in mine.

Secondly—and most importantly—I went into it thinking I had hit rock bottom, but it turned out to be one of the most empowering experiences of my life. Before that, I felt embarrassment and shame regarding any of my sexual impulses. My time dancing taught me to embrace my sexuality and sensuality. And I believe that is a crucial part of self-acceptance as a whole.

Today, I live a life I love, and I doubt that would have happened if I hadn't taken that step. Being a stripper isn't always something sordid. In the years since, whenever I’ve told people about it, I’ve often been asked: «Oh, you were a stripper...? I'm so sorry.» 4. People assume that we are constantly obsessed with sex and sexually aroused—even when we are on a genuine date.

We are human beings, after all, and we aren’t always «in the mood,» regardless of what we do for a living. Sometimes I just want to eat some ice cream and watch *Grey’s Anatomy*, so please don’t assume that I want to have sex non-stop simply because I’m a sex worker.

5. Sex work isn’t just something undertaken by people who have survived violence or abuse. I was in a loving relationship (though it took my partner some time to come to terms with my profession), and I never hid my work from my friends.

In a single year, I earned more than I had in five years at a conventional job. I didn’t use drugs, I never engaged in unprotected sex, and, by and large, I was treated well. I faced physical danger a couple of times, but that was because one of my colleagues—with whom I was working in tandem—had lied about the services she was providing. I was always upfront: «This is what you’re paying for my time, and I’m not going to deceive you.» I found that this approach always worked well.

Currently, I hold a management position at one of the country’s largest healthcare organizations. I am married, and I have a wonderful life. I wish people would understand that sex workers don’t need to be pitied. While many women may enter the industry against their will, those of us who choose to do so make that choice consciously. Could I have found work in a different field? Yes. But I had a fantastic time. I loved the women I worked with, and I encountered some truly incredible experiences. I met celebrities who were in town for concerts, NHL players, and TV personalities. It’s easier to hire a girl who is guaranteed to leave—and won’t want you to call her—than to try to pick someone up at a bar. That was fun!

I can say one thing: I’ve seen more «happily» married men than representatives of any other demographic group.

6. I feel people mistakenly assume that individuals enter the sex industry simply because they lack money.

This isn't true; in a sense, it’s rude and completely unfounded.

7. One thing men are *always* wrong about is thinking that I’ll give them a discount or a freebie just because they’re «handsome,» have a «big dick,» or aren't «some ugly old guy with a small dick.»

For one thing, many of my clients are young and attractive. Oh—and having a big dick ABSOLUTELY does not mean you’re good in bed. The stigma perpetuated by the porn industry—that big dicks are inherently great—is terrible.

Furthermore, people ask me if I chose this line of work because I need sex. No. Absolutely not. If I wanted sex, I could easily get it without being a sex worker. I have bills to pay, after all!

8. I always tell people: «Every job has its pros and cons. This job, however, has nothing but cons—cons that will affect you for the rest of your life.» Choose wisely.

9. Last night, a client said to me: «Being a stripper is easy.» It isn't. It is incredibly difficult and grueling—both physically and emotionally.

I started stripping after losing my previous job due to the pandemic, and at first, things were okay. But the stress of financial insecurity really takes a heavy toll on your mental health. It breeds deep self-doubt. Sometimes truly awful people come into the clubs just to cause a scene and spout nasty insults—sometimes right to your face. It’s especially bad when they’re drunk. Nowadays, the worst thing that can happen with clients is the mindset that they don't need to leave a tip because «you make plenty of money as a stripper anyway.» After dancing all night—whether in the VIP area or on stage—your entire body aches, especially your joints, knees, back, and hips. Everything you see on YouTube is pure fantasy. Don't let them fool you.

10. There is a misconception that we don't deserve basic human respect, and that anyone can do whatever they please with us. We are NOT commodities, and the fact that you are paying does not mean we have no boundaries.

11. Between the ages of 20 and 21, I worked as an escort. For the first time in my life, I was living on my own—and as we all know, life is expensive! I called a number listed in a newspaper ad, and within just a week, I was earning $100 an hour—which was far better than the $6.85 an hour I was making at my retail job.

My friends knew what I was doing, and I would call one of my girlfriends at the end of every night to let her know I had made it home safely from work. I felt secure because I was working for a man who would drive me to and pick me up from every appointment. Yes, I had to give him a cut of the earnings, but it was well worth it for the sake of my safety.

The biggest misconception was that I felt compelled to do this work, or that I had no other choice. In reality, everything was my choice—from the hours I made myself available to the type of interactions I agreed to. All in all, it really boosted my confidence, and I learned a great deal about myself and my sexuality.

I stopped doing it because I had saved up enough money to buy a house and move to a small town. Shortly thereafter, I met my current husband. Early in our relationship, I told him that I had worked in the sex industry; and while it took him some time to process it, he accepted it, and now we simply don't talk about it anymore.

12. I don't understand why people assume that sex workers either hate their jobs because they’re forced into them, or absolutely adore them. I’m not particularly fond of filming explicit scenes or having sex with strangers, but I don’t think it’s any worse than working at a supermarket. Plus, it pays significantly more money for far fewer hours. So, for me, the choice is obvious.

13. It really frustrates me to see the assumptions people make about my clients. Of course, there are plenty of unpleasant and repulsive people among them. But on the whole—based on my experience working in phone sex and webcamming—my regular clients are just nice, normal people. I respect them and allow them to take up my time because they respect my boundaries and my rates.

People used to constantly ask me if my phone clients were lonely, or perverts, and so on. But they are simply people who know what they like sexually. For some, it’s a component of their sexual relationship with a partner. For others, it’s a specific sexual interest that is simply easier to pay for. All kinds of people pay for sex, pleasure, and companionship. And I’m one of them! I love watching other webcam models and tipping them!

14. Most clients are boring and stupid, and you find yourself constantly checking the clock.

I really wish people would understand that working in the full-service sex industry is enjoyable not because sex is our hobby. It is our job.

15. I’ve been working as a stripper for four years now, and many of my clients and friends simply assume that I’m giving blowjobs left and right. Everyone thinks that all dancers and sex workers do nothing but that, but it’s not true. We all have our own boundaries and rules. There are clients who say, «It’s fine—I always do this at this club» (referring to paying for sex or a blowjob), and I always have to reply, «Well, honey, you’re certainly not going to do that with *me*!» It amazes me how many people misunderstand this line of work. Some sex workers do certain things, while others don't. We are all different because we are all individuals. You can't just generalize and rely on stereotypes.

I also hate it when I’m dancing with a guy and he says, «I can tell you’re turned on,» or «Are you about to cum?» Like, seriously? Sometimes, sure, I might get turned on. But 99% of the time, I’m just doing my job and counting the songs in my head. And I’m probably not going to cum just from rubbing against you, sweetie.

Finally, I really dislike the common assumption that sex workers have no other options—that we’re uneducated or «troubled.» I graduated from college with a bachelor’s degree, and I work as a stripper not because I lack ambition or brains. I work as a stripper because I don’t want to spend my prime years sitting in rush-hour traffic twice a day, staring at a screen for hours on end, or having someone constantly tell me what to do and how to do it. I don’t want to work 40 hours a week only to be paid a pittance for my labor.

So many people dance to gain freedom and independence, and to make a ton of money doing something genuinely interesting and inspiring—all while having the time to truly *live*! Sex work isn’t for everyone, but for me, it’s a true passion. It has given me self-confidence and freedom. Anyone who scoffs at the idea of ​​working in the sex industry simply doesn’t have the right mindset for such a unique and beautiful profession.

10. Guys don't give a damn about your nails, pantyhose, perms, high heels, or earrings. Sure, it creates a cool, cinematic vibe, but that’s not why we love you.

9. For a guy, conversation is a means of conveying information. We speak only if we have something to say. If there’s nothing to say—we say nothing. We don't need to exchange a lot of words to feel a connection.

8. After an orgasm, the already fairly empty space inside our heads becomes even more devoid of thought. And we like it that way. Just let us recover in peace and hang out in that mental void without having to strain our brains. Give us at least 3 or 4 months, and we’ll give you a call back.

7. Yes, we can live on a mattress and survive entirely on takeout. No, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. Any comfort in a guy's life usually comes about solely thanks to the efforts of the woman in his life.

6. We don't mind springing for coffee, dinner, or anything else—but only for those who would be with us even without those perks. If we get the feeling that we’re somehow *obligated* to do it, the desire to do so vanishes completely.

5. We find it incredibly difficult to do things we don't see the point in. That’s why we often forget to buy flowers. It takes a conscious effort on our part to grasp that this sort of thing actually matters to a woman.

4. When a guy says he isn't thinking about anything, he means it—literally. There’s no need to rush in and try to «fix» that.

3. Men go through life with a subconscious urge to screw anything and everything that’s even remotely attractive. But we aren't animals, after all. So it’s not as if we *only* want sex; we crave tenderness, intimacy, and all the rest, too. It’s just that, almost without exception, if sex isn't on the table, the rest of it doesn't seem particularly interesting to us.

2. Unlike the average woman, the average guy receives pretty much zero active attention from the opposite sex; consequently, even simple politeness can strike a guy as intense flirting. This isn't a sign of stupidity—it’s simply a lack of experience.

1. All of these points might turn out to be bullshit, subjective perception, or trolling—figure it out for yourselves. Have a good day.

It's easy to touch a woman. I saw a picture online of a woman who was moved to tears by a man who made her a pie. Guys, it only takes 10 minutes, but a woman feels so happy. Take notes.

Well, let's put it this way: if you have to win a girl over, take her by storm, she's a prize. I once knew a man who loved to win prize woman over, and that was it. The problem was, once he'd won her over and slept with her, he lost interest. There was no thrill. That's why relationships never lasted more than a couple of months. If you're a prize, be prepared for a man to want to «win» a few more «trophies» after you.

The more successful a free man becomes, the more aggressively women react to him. And it's not that you're bad, it's that you're too good.

1. «Uncontrolled freedom»

The first thing that infuriates women is your absolute freedom. You can move to another city, change jobs, or start a new hobby… And all this without regard to the «other half». In my practice, there was a case when a successful bachelor just bought a ticket and flew to Bali for six months. Try to pull this off in a marriage!

2. «Financial independence»

Oh yes, it makes them especially angry! You manage your money as you see fit. No arguments about whether you need a new console or whether it's better to buy a fur coat. Your wallet is your rules.

3. «High self-esteem»

A bachelor who is happy with his life is like a red rag for a bull. Women are used to the idea that a man should feel inferior without a relationship. And then you show up, happy and self-sufficient.

4. «Social challenge»

There is still a stereotype in society that a successful man must be married. And when you break this pattern, it causes aggression. You are like living proof that you can be happy without a stamp in your passport.

5. «Quality of life»

Do you know what else pisses them off? How good you look! In my practice, I constantly see how bachelors at 40+ look better than their married peers. No beer belly, fresh look, fashionable clothes.

6. «No manipulation»

You cannot be manipulated through guilt. «All normal men have been married for a long time»- remember that phrase? It doesn't work on you, and it pisses them off.

7. «Personal growth»

Free time = self-development. While married friends spend the weekend at their mother-in-law's cottage, you learn a new language, invest in investments, or conquer mountain peaks.

8. «Social competition»

You're a walking reminder to their exes that you can live a different life. Every successful bachelor's story is a blow to the stereotype of «after a divorce, life is over.»

9. «Myth Busting»

Last but not least. You are destroying the myth that a man cannot be happy without a woman. And that's probably what pisses them off the most.

P.S. Remember, being a bachelor is not a sentence, it's a privilege. And it's up to you to decide how to use your freedom.

First, a little about myself — I’m 45 years old, I got married at 20, I’m still happy, I have two children. I have been working in the registry office for 25 years and would like to share my observations from the outside, or, more precisely, to address modern female representatives.

Although I am a woman myself, what has been happening to them for quite some time now is, to put it mildly, quiet horror. I never supported or condoned such actions and behavior, but on the contrary, I despised them. I've always wondered what's going on in your empty heads, modern ladies?

Yes, yes, empty ones! What have you sunk to? It makes your hair stand up when you look at the divorce statistics.

90% of divorces, and in most cases, are initiated by you yourself, my “dear” ladies.

This figure, for our small provincial town, with its population not exceeding half a million, is very large. However, this nightmare is happening throughout our vast country.

Who is to blame for all this, you ask? Yes, you yourself, no need to point at men!

Look at how you treat men? Yes, as you like — as a consumer product, an ATM, a thing, a bull-producer, but not as a person.

The reasons for divorce seem to be written out as carbon copies — either you don’t have enough money, or your husband is an asshole, lets loose, drinks, etc., you can list them for a long time. Before marriage he was different and everything like that.

I’ll tell you a great secret or secret, as you like, men are the same as they were before marriage, and that’s how they remain in the process of family life. Only five percent of men out of a hundred, no more, who filed for divorce on their own, but only because his wife drank all the blood and ate his brain, found an outlet in the form of a mistress and got carried away.

Don’t make monsters and worthless men out of men, because you yourself are driving them to extremes.

Are you saying that this is not true? You always have little money, few clothes, shorts and other things.

You pint out to man — look at others, why isn't it like that with us?

Let's take out a loan to buy some junk, like an iPhone. You have to take out a mortgage to live happily.

You hang one collar after another on a man’s neck, especially for him, but not for yourself.

You get into problems yourself, and then a man has to sort them all out for you, because you don’t have enough brains to do more than get into some new shit.

Who gave you the right to chase and destroy a man like a racehorse, for the sake of your own whims? So that he works several jobs just to provide for your mercantile desires? When a man loves you and children, appreciate it. One of the tasks of a man is to help his children reach adulthood through paternal education. And you women behave like little, hysterical girls who were not given candy.

You are not able to support children without a man, or support yourself.

You, like bottomless black holes, pull the last out of a man.

If you believe that it is so easy to earn money, then why are you not able to earn as much as you need, your “beloved”, need?

Does a man owe you anything? Can you even hear yourself? You must also invest in your family as equals. If you didn’t know, until relatively recently, property and children, during a divorce, remained with the man.

You have let yourself go so much that sleeping with men who are just acquaintances for you, for a day or a night, has become commonplace. You are ready to lie under anyone just to get money, property, etc.

All this is so vile and disgusting, you have become worse than prostitutes. You judge other women — say she's a slut. Look at yourself first, how many “innocent” men have you had? After a divorce, just like before marriage, you go to great lengths, go around, so to speak, in circles, from hand to hand, men now call these people “Public Transport.”

You always blame men for everything, even for what happens to you, but what have you done to be happy and have strong families? Nothing really, you just whine about how bad everything is.

A woman is, first of all, a keeper of the home, and not a fireman who put out everything.

What have you done for your man, for your family? Did you give birth to a child, nag your husband, listen to all your friends, your mother? These are all your achievements in life, all your merits and awards that you awarded to yourself.

Men work as rescuers, serve in the army, make discoveries, shed blood in hot spots, surgery, cooks in the best restaurants in the world, scientists — all these are men. Women who actually accomplished something or did something worthy can be counted on the fingers of one hand, because for the most part they only leave at the expense of men.

It is because of people like you that it is extremely difficult for a woman, a natural woman who is truly ready to be a faithful and caring wife, a good mother, to find a man.

You have completely discredited the entire female sex — at first you pretend to be good, and a few years later, after you have took everything you wanted from your husband, you turn on the bitch and file for divorce, wave your hand at him from the “leaving train”, and, not only that, hang a whole carriage of long-term financial obligations on him and take away the children. Do you think that after all this, men will trust you?

Perhaps, but only the most outspoken rabble, decent, worthy men will bypass you, because they will see a catch even where there cannot be one. It is easier for them to lead an independent life than to risk their lives, resources, and health.

You need to appreciate and take care of your man. Without men, this world will wallow in vices and rot. Imagine for a moment that all the men disappeared at once and what then? Women won’t last long, everything around them will begin to collapse.

Appreciate your man, take care of him, otherwise you will become a Divorced with a Trailer, this is a stigma for life, do not deceive yourself, with such a status no one will need you. A divorced with a trailer does not sound proud, but low.

1. I don't know if it's just me, but that childish voice and silly, childlike behavior looks very creepy from the outside. It really repels me, and I don't find anything funny about it at all.

2. I used to work in an office where everyone was a woman. There were two other men, but they were overweight guys in their 60s with beer bellies. And I was the only fit young guy. The women constantly commented on my physique out loud. They stared. They touched me in various places. Many of them were married or went to church. Women can easily break gender stereotypes of behavior.

3. I'm in great shape, and the number of unfamiliar women who supposedly accidentally touched my arms, shoulders, and chest when I was on the street, in the store, on the subway, was far too high.

4. When women look at you and say something like, «If I were 10 years younger...» And I'm only 17, and she's twice my age. And if a 30-year-old man said that to a 17-year-old girl, the FBI would have been called a long time ago.

5. I block them, but they keep creating fake accounts and bothering me.

6. My wife demanded that I delete a photograph of an old friend of mine, whom I've known for over ten years, and who has long been married to a mutual friend of ours. This photograph is part of a group of eight pictures. It's dear to me as a memory. I didn't delete it. My wife first made a scene, then didn't talk to me for a week, then threatened divorce and division of my property, but after a month she calmed down.

7. Last weekend we were hanging out with a group of guys, there were six of us, and then some unfamiliar girl started circling around us like a lost puppy and wouldn't leave. She was attractive, but she so clearly craved attention that it felt creepy to give it to her. This girl was just looking at everyone, batting her eyelashes, and trying to hug everyone, but the guys just awkwardly distanced themselves from her.

Now imagine if a guy did that to girls. He would be called a creepy guy and the police would be called.

8. Honestly, women definitely exploit men's emotions. We may not cry in the movie theater, but we are not immune to deep, painful emotional wounds. It's easier for women to criticize men for their appearance, height, weight, or income. Men can't criticize women without being called pigs.

So yes, women who nitpick men for the most insignificant reasons are usually creepy and arrogant. And that's a huge red flag for any guy.

9. Double standards regarding sexual harassment. In a store, some idiot grabbed my butt. So hard that it left a bruise. Everyone around just laughed. But if I had done that, I would have spent at least the next night in a police station.

10. Wherever I go, I'm constantly asked at home afterwards if anyone flirted with me. What the hell! I went to an American football game. Who would flirt with me during a game?

11. Hypocrisy regarding sexism.

If a guy hits a girl: «What an asshole!»

If a girl hits a guy: «Well, what did he do to you?»

An older man harasses a much younger woman: «What a scumbag!»

An older woman flirts with a much younger man: «You got what you wanted, girl!»

Jokes about small penises: funny!

Jokes about fat men: funny!

Jokes about men, especially short ones, are funny!

Jokes about women's appearance and the lack of intelligence of some representatives of the fair sex are categorically unacceptable.