First, a little about myself — I’m 45 years old, I got married at 20, I’m still happy, I have two children. I have been working in the registry office for 25 years and would like to share my observations from the outside, or, more precisely, to address modern female representatives.

Although I am a woman myself, what has been happening to them for quite some time now is, to put it mildly, quiet horror. I never supported or condoned such actions and behavior, but on the contrary, I despised them. I've always wondered what's going on in your empty heads, modern ladies?

Yes, yes, empty ones! What have you sunk to? It makes your hair stand up when you look at the divorce statistics.

90% of divorces, and in most cases, are initiated by you yourself, my “dear” ladies.

This figure, for our small provincial town, with its population not exceeding half a million, is very large. However, this nightmare is happening throughout our vast country.

Who is to blame for all this, you ask? Yes, you yourself, no need to point at men!

Look at how you treat men? Yes, as you like — as a consumer product, an ATM, a thing, a bull-producer, but not as a person.

The reasons for divorce seem to be written out as carbon copies — either you don’t have enough money, or your husband is an asshole, lets loose, drinks, etc., you can list them for a long time. Before marriage he was different and everything like that.

I’ll tell you a great secret or secret, as you like, men are the same as they were before marriage, and that’s how they remain in the process of family life. Only five percent of men out of a hundred, no more, who filed for divorce on their own, but only because his wife drank all the blood and ate his brain, found an outlet in the form of a mistress and got carried away.

Don’t make monsters and worthless men out of men, because you yourself are driving them to extremes.

Are you saying that this is not true? You always have little money, few clothes, shorts and other things.

You pint out to man — look at others, why isn't it like that with us?

Let's take out a loan to buy some junk, like an iPhone. You have to take out a mortgage to live happily.

You hang one collar after another on a man’s neck, especially for him, but not for yourself.

You get into problems yourself, and then a man has to sort them all out for you, because you don’t have enough brains to do more than get into some new shit.

Who gave you the right to chase and destroy a man like a racehorse, for the sake of your own whims? So that he works several jobs just to provide for your mercantile desires? When a man loves you and children, appreciate it. One of the tasks of a man is to help his children reach adulthood through paternal education. And you women behave like little, hysterical girls who were not given candy.

You are not able to support children without a man, or support yourself.

You, like bottomless black holes, pull the last out of a man.

If you believe that it is so easy to earn money, then why are you not able to earn as much as you need, your “beloved”, need?

Does a man owe you anything? Can you even hear yourself? You must also invest in your family as equals. If you didn’t know, until relatively recently, property and children, during a divorce, remained with the man.

You have let yourself go so much that sleeping with men who are just acquaintances for you, for a day or a night, has become commonplace. You are ready to lie under anyone just to get money, property, etc.

All this is so vile and disgusting, you have become worse than prostitutes. You judge other women — say she's a slut. Look at yourself first, how many “innocent” men have you had? After a divorce, just like before marriage, you go to great lengths, go around, so to speak, in circles, from hand to hand, men now call these people “Public Transport.”

You always blame men for everything, even for what happens to you, but what have you done to be happy and have strong families? Nothing really, you just whine about how bad everything is.

A woman is, first of all, a keeper of the home, and not a fireman who put out everything.

What have you done for your man, for your family? Did you give birth to a child, nag your husband, listen to all your friends, your mother? These are all your achievements in life, all your merits and awards that you awarded to yourself.

Men work as rescuers, serve in the army, make discoveries, shed blood in hot spots, surgery, cooks in the best restaurants in the world, scientists — all these are men. Women who actually accomplished something or did something worthy can be counted on the fingers of one hand, because for the most part they only leave at the expense of men.

It is because of people like you that it is extremely difficult for a woman, a natural woman who is truly ready to be a faithful and caring wife, a good mother, to find a man.

You have completely discredited the entire female sex — at first you pretend to be good, and a few years later, after you have took everything you wanted from your husband, you turn on the bitch and file for divorce, wave your hand at him from the “leaving train”, and, not only that, hang a whole carriage of long-term financial obligations on him and take away the children. Do you think that after all this, men will trust you?

Perhaps, but only the most outspoken rabble, decent, worthy men will bypass you, because they will see a catch even where there cannot be one. It is easier for them to lead an independent life than to risk their lives, resources, and health.

You need to appreciate and take care of your man. Without men, this world will wallow in vices and rot. Imagine for a moment that all the men disappeared at once and what then? Women won’t last long, everything around them will begin to collapse.

Appreciate your man, take care of him, otherwise you will become a Divorced with a Trailer, this is a stigma for life, do not deceive yourself, with such a status no one will need you. A divorced with a trailer does not sound proud, but low.